BlindedByTheLite
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- 21 years old.
- Zero income.
- Never held a real job.
- No high school diploma or GED.
- Limited college education.
- Living with my muthr in her apartment.
- Terribly unconditioned and out of shape.
- Intellect seems to be dulled.
- My memory is terrible.
- I have a lot of trouble with math/algebra/etc.
- I don't seem to know much about anything.
- Been feeling easily overwhelmed for awhile now.
- Don't have even so much as a bank account in my name.
Lately I've been running into old friends who are on their way thru college, pregnant, married, etc. My family is getting quite tired of me. I feel like I make a bad impression on basically everyone I meet due to my lackings/short-comings (Hi, I'm Ryan. I have no job and live with my muthr!). I'm 21 years old and in nearly the same position in life I was in when I was 16. I'm feeling like a failure (everyone else in the family has basically been on their feet @ 21 years old).
I need a way to get out of my muthr's apartment and on my feet pronto... but... I feel like school is out of the question since my intellect has become so dulled and my math skills are probly worse than a freshman high school level. Then I also feel like a job will be difficult since I have barely anything to add to a resume. And I'm probly pickier about employment than I should be.
Can anyone recommend something to possibly jump-start me and get me into gear?
I need to recondition myself and get into shape. I need a real source of income. I need a place of my own. Etc. It seems almost impossible with my current situation.
Thanks if anyone can give me some advice, speak from experience, or just generally lecture me about being young and stupid. I'd appreciate it. If you have any questions I can answer them with 89% honesty. I really don't have anyone to lecture/guide me in my life, so it's more challenging to find outlets and sources of learning than one would expect.
- Ryan
P.S. For anyone interested about my illness, it was depression, panic/anxiety disorder, and asthma. The combination overwhelmed me and really took a chunk out of my life. If you have any friends or relatives suffering from something similar, please try not to take it/them lightly.
P.P.S. This is supposed to be a positive post! Really! It might sound gloomy and whatever but I had to provide my background so everyone could get a sense of where I'm coming from.
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- Zero income.
- Never held a real job.
- No high school diploma or GED.
- Limited college education.
- Living with my muthr in her apartment.
- Terribly unconditioned and out of shape.
- Intellect seems to be dulled.
- My memory is terrible.
- I have a lot of trouble with math/algebra/etc.
- I don't seem to know much about anything.
- Been feeling easily overwhelmed for awhile now.
- Don't have even so much as a bank account in my name.
Lately I've been running into old friends who are on their way thru college, pregnant, married, etc. My family is getting quite tired of me. I feel like I make a bad impression on basically everyone I meet due to my lackings/short-comings (Hi, I'm Ryan. I have no job and live with my muthr!). I'm 21 years old and in nearly the same position in life I was in when I was 16. I'm feeling like a failure (everyone else in the family has basically been on their feet @ 21 years old).
I need a way to get out of my muthr's apartment and on my feet pronto... but... I feel like school is out of the question since my intellect has become so dulled and my math skills are probly worse than a freshman high school level. Then I also feel like a job will be difficult since I have barely anything to add to a resume. And I'm probly pickier about employment than I should be.
Can anyone recommend something to possibly jump-start me and get me into gear?
I need to recondition myself and get into shape. I need a real source of income. I need a place of my own. Etc. It seems almost impossible with my current situation.
Thanks if anyone can give me some advice, speak from experience, or just generally lecture me about being young and stupid. I'd appreciate it. If you have any questions I can answer them with 89% honesty. I really don't have anyone to lecture/guide me in my life, so it's more challenging to find outlets and sources of learning than one would expect.
- Ryan
P.S. For anyone interested about my illness, it was depression, panic/anxiety disorder, and asthma. The combination overwhelmed me and really took a chunk out of my life. If you have any friends or relatives suffering from something similar, please try not to take it/them lightly.
P.P.S. This is supposed to be a positive post! Really! It might sound gloomy and whatever but I had to provide my background so everyone could get a sense of where I'm coming from.
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