i love steak. I can honestly say that the greatest pleasure in my life is having a steak dinner with my wife with a couple good bottles of wine. some candles lit, classical music in the background. the term "steak night" is not thrown around loosely in this house; as no expense is spared. it starts off with the appetizer. usually we will get a good assortment of cheese, fruit and salami going with a nice bottle of pinot noir or chardonnay. then its on to the steak. USDA prime, even better if dry aged, 2" thick, usually I will go either porterhouse (not T-bone!) or ribeye, she prefers NY strip or tenderloin. left out a couple hours to get the inside to room temp (I like my steak rare, but a cool center is off putting), sautéed mushrooms and asparagus. before cooking commences we will crack open a couple bottles of wine, do a couple blind tastings to see which we prefer to have with our steak, and which we will have while we cook. personally im partial to Rhone wines. dessert will be either some kind of chocolate with port, or some sort of cobble with an ice wine. I know all this makes me sound like a snob, but if you knew me youd be thinking "what the hell???". everyone has something they excel at. some people are good with numbers, some people are more responsible than other, some people have good fashion sense, some people are crafty, and some people are charitable. I do steak night.
edit: +1 for the searing hot cast iron method (all about the crust!). I keep mine on the grill because inside it makes the house smoky; literally have it down to an art form. I rarely ever cook a good piece of steak on the grill grates anymore