I have a "what if" idea.
What if you unsolder the emitter, as chimo did. Take an exacto knife, cut around the thermal "pad" (
not the elecrtical contacts!) on the board and peel this section up and remove it. Clean up the heatsink that is now exposed. Then, either of two things,
Put solder paste on the MCPCB electrical contacts. Put
thermal epoxy in the area you cut out, where the thermal pad goes. Mount the emitter and clamp it together, untill the epoxy sets. Then, heat the assembly up to reflow the solder at the electrical contacts.
OR,
Same as above
but, cut a piece of thin copper sheet to the dimensions of the cut out area. Place thermal epoxy in the cutout area, place the copper sheet on the board and clamp it in a jig to assure flatness, untill the epoxy sets up. Then, apply solder paste to the electrical contacts
and, the thermal pad area. Heat the the assembly up to reflow the solder.
Most of you guys know a lot more about all this than I do but, I thought I wouild present my idea for comment.
Dave