can you link me to what you are referring to?
He probably means
this or something similar. He's right, too.
my intention is to sell them as "for off-road use only"
It's a common misconception that labelling or advertising as "off-road use only" exempts you from the Federal regulations applicable to anyone who makes, imports, or sells regulated vehicle components (such as lights). In fact, it does not. If a lamp assembly is
physically capable of being installed on a motor vehicle certified by its maker or importer as complying with the applicable Federal standards, then that lamp itself must also comply. And since all roadgoing vehicles in the US are required to be certified by their makers or installers as complying with all applicable Federal standards, it means your lamps must comply.
there are several kits available and are far from legal
So? "Officer, c'mon, I only have a
little heroin on me. There are several people who have a lot more on them, so they're far from legal." Ridiculous, right? Right. You're making the same argument.
rarely are we pulled over for these things and more often than not cops dont know any how
That doesn't make them legal, nor does it make them safe, and it has no bearing on your intent to sell illegal lights. Have you considered the liability issues that arise from selling noncompliant items of vehicle safety equipment? Seriously, think about it: you can be sued for enormous sums of money, and if you cannot prove that the equipment you sold is fully compliant, you will lose quickly and badly. The only way to shield yourself from that liability is to make your lamps compliant; even if you were to have your customers all sign a form stating they assume all liability, legally
you are still responsible because you're the maker/importer/seller of the equipment. Regulations don't cease to exist or fail to apply to you just because you don't bother to know or understand them, y'know. And they're there for a reason: to protet public safety. A car's lights aren't toys, they're safety equipment.
now i am comfortable selling these kits this way because the lighting is better than the stock lights.
I see no evidence you're qualified to make any such a statement. And it looks to me as if you're violating Rule #11 of this forum.
i am very aware of the legal aspects of the lighting
Given all the wrong statements you've made so far, I don't think you are.