Ok, here is the situation.
My cousin is in his late 20's, and he is married and has children, 2 daughters, one about 4, the other 3. They always come over our house on weekends starting from friday and sleep over until sunday in order to attend our church. This is because my cousin has an important job there and he lives in Philly.
His children are cute, and I dont mind them. But they tend to get annoying, so I often retire early to my room when things get noisy, and end up sleeping at 6 in the evening.
Their children discovered that my room has many wonders. Old toys, strange gadgets (my flashlights!), etc. They try to sneak into my room often to play with my things, and I really, REALLY get PISSED when I find them there digging through my stuff. So when they see me, they quietly place down what they are holding and shuffle out of the room. I have to make sure everything is still there because they tend to put things into their little bag, and take it home. Their parents never return this stuff either.
I was the first in our house to notice that they take, AND damage our belongings. I try to talk to my parents about them, and sometimes end up name calling my cousins children like thieves. I recently just tried to forget about it, but just last week, something happened. Please read on.
I have a nice TadGear holster for my Inova X5, and it was on a shelf in my room. I like it. A lot. A LOT. The holster is VERY useful, and sometimes I wear a belt just so I can carry the X5.
So that friday I come home to discover my nieces in my room again. I calmly walk in, and they calmly, as usual, place down what they were playing with, and shuffle out. I count my stuff to make sure its there again, and mistake another black holster I had rolling around for the TadGear holster.
I didnt realize that they took it until Monday, when I had turned the whole house upside down over 3 times, without my holster. It all came together, I remembered my nieces, how I was stressed out that day to realize my holster was missing, you know.
So I start swearing and cussing and swearing some more. My dad told me to pray, and I would find it. 4 days later, I still didnt find it. I searched in vain for a whole week. The weekend came again, and my nieces were at it again. I didnt want to mention the holster because I knew it would be very rude. So I lay in my room that whole weekend, stewing in my own anger and frustration.
Then the next BAD thing happened. My box of CR123s were missing. The whole tantrum process began on monday again, and I was pissed and angry the whole week. I was OKAY with my other little toys being stolen, although I did want them back. My holster and batteries was going WAY too far. Now I dont know how to make a good, respectful request for the return of my property. Can someone help me out?
Update is at the end of the page...
My cousin is in his late 20's, and he is married and has children, 2 daughters, one about 4, the other 3. They always come over our house on weekends starting from friday and sleep over until sunday in order to attend our church. This is because my cousin has an important job there and he lives in Philly.
His children are cute, and I dont mind them. But they tend to get annoying, so I often retire early to my room when things get noisy, and end up sleeping at 6 in the evening.
Their children discovered that my room has many wonders. Old toys, strange gadgets (my flashlights!), etc. They try to sneak into my room often to play with my things, and I really, REALLY get PISSED when I find them there digging through my stuff. So when they see me, they quietly place down what they are holding and shuffle out of the room. I have to make sure everything is still there because they tend to put things into their little bag, and take it home. Their parents never return this stuff either.
I was the first in our house to notice that they take, AND damage our belongings. I try to talk to my parents about them, and sometimes end up name calling my cousins children like thieves. I recently just tried to forget about it, but just last week, something happened. Please read on.
I have a nice TadGear holster for my Inova X5, and it was on a shelf in my room. I like it. A lot. A LOT. The holster is VERY useful, and sometimes I wear a belt just so I can carry the X5.
So that friday I come home to discover my nieces in my room again. I calmly walk in, and they calmly, as usual, place down what they were playing with, and shuffle out. I count my stuff to make sure its there again, and mistake another black holster I had rolling around for the TadGear holster.
I didnt realize that they took it until Monday, when I had turned the whole house upside down over 3 times, without my holster. It all came together, I remembered my nieces, how I was stressed out that day to realize my holster was missing, you know.
So I start swearing and cussing and swearing some more. My dad told me to pray, and I would find it. 4 days later, I still didnt find it. I searched in vain for a whole week. The weekend came again, and my nieces were at it again. I didnt want to mention the holster because I knew it would be very rude. So I lay in my room that whole weekend, stewing in my own anger and frustration.
Then the next BAD thing happened. My box of CR123s were missing. The whole tantrum process began on monday again, and I was pissed and angry the whole week. I was OKAY with my other little toys being stolen, although I did want them back. My holster and batteries was going WAY too far. Now I dont know how to make a good, respectful request for the return of my property. Can someone help me out?
Update is at the end of the page...