JaguarDave.... I can totally relate and agree with your assessment of what's important in a flashlight to you. I live in the country on 5 wooded acres with wooded acreage beyond and when I'm wanting to see out there far, I too will choose the brightest-throwy arrow in the quiver. (At present that would be my Jet III Military, which is a great thrower.)
So what you're saying makes perfect sense to me. And in that application, I guess brightness is close to "everything" for that application. But that's not the light I would necessarily choose for my general use around the house - an application where brightness is not "everything". I never use my Jet III M around the house.
Most of my flashlight use is in and around the house and that's why ultimate brightness is lower among my desired attributes for general use in the house.
If I had to have just one light for out on the acreage as well as around the house, yes, it would be important to me to choose one with ultimate brightness, as long as it was compact enough for general use and dimmable to 1 to 3 lumens or so. And, hopefully, I could meet most of my other criteria as well.
I haven't checked to see, but I would guess that there's a newer Jet III Military out by now with a much hotter emitter than mine has (XR-E Q3 5A). Perhaps I'm due for an upgrade!
Definitely different criteria for different applications.