Re: well my cat is weirder then first thought
My cat Malibu has some interesting behaviors as well. For one thing I know, her food bowl is in the corner of the kitchen as normal, but the water dish is in the bathroom outside my room on the counter next to the sink. She likes to climb up onto the counter for a drink every morning then sits there and watches me brush my teeth or shave. She'll follow me downstairs when I'm ready to leave.
I have a similar situation as you do when it comes to where my cat wants to rest. She used to sleep in box lids when she was a kitten and ignores the "bed" we bought for her. As an adult, she seems to have no particular spot to sleep; sometimes she sleeps on my bed, sometimes it's on the floor under my desk, sometimes she goes in my closet and sleeps on my clothes, and sometimes, she sleeps on a chair in my parent's bedroom.
If/when she wants to rub her head against something, it could be anything from the corner of a wall, the bindings on snowboard, my Chaco sandals, or my leg