WNG
Enlightened
Do they also borrow your boots too? Or your sandwich because they didn't pack a lunch or have money for the lunchtruck?
Believe me, the best thing is to refuse to loan out your stuff. They'll respect you more, and if they aren't the type, then you don't want to associate with them anyway. If the guy/gal is reasonably OK, once maybe...but that's it. Afterall, it's impeding your work, as you need it too.
After my experiences, NO is my answer. I was once on a crew of window installers as a favor to the sub-contractor. You bring your own tools. But someone wants to borrow this, and they passed it to who...and what do you know...someone keeps it and I'm out said tool. Ask them and you get a poop-eating grin smile and a "I don't know."
Leeches come in all styles....not just borrowers. But also the types that are too good or incompetent to do something. And they expect you to be their packmule, slave, taxi, cook, or charitable sugar daddy. I've come to know a few in my time.
They come in all shapes and sizes and all walks of life. Leech mentality is to work below a person's comfort zone to get their way. You'll be the first to be too embarrassed, shamed, impatient, or compassionate before them, and give in.
Sadly, some of the worst leeches are family members.
Believe me, the best thing is to refuse to loan out your stuff. They'll respect you more, and if they aren't the type, then you don't want to associate with them anyway. If the guy/gal is reasonably OK, once maybe...but that's it. Afterall, it's impeding your work, as you need it too.
After my experiences, NO is my answer. I was once on a crew of window installers as a favor to the sub-contractor. You bring your own tools. But someone wants to borrow this, and they passed it to who...and what do you know...someone keeps it and I'm out said tool. Ask them and you get a poop-eating grin smile and a "I don't know."
Leeches come in all styles....not just borrowers. But also the types that are too good or incompetent to do something. And they expect you to be their packmule, slave, taxi, cook, or charitable sugar daddy. I've come to know a few in my time.
They come in all shapes and sizes and all walks of life. Leech mentality is to work below a person's comfort zone to get their way. You'll be the first to be too embarrassed, shamed, impatient, or compassionate before them, and give in.
Sadly, some of the worst leeches are family members.