is your wife/girlfriend/significant other supportive of your flashlight addiction?

tychoseven

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She doesn't care about tint, runtime, output, etc., but she does keep "borrowing" my lights so at least she recognizes that they're useful. I've even gifted her a couple and she still takes mine!
 

turshi

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My mother gives me 'the talk' about not spending too much money and prioritize money spending and the like every time a package comes.
 

plk7

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First off, I wouldn't call it an addiction yet, rather an interest (strong enough to register on this forum). This echoes what a lot of others have said, but my wife thinks it's a little weird. She also thought that way when I was into watches, and more recently, knives and multi-tools. I don't think she minds the latter two and flashlights as much, as they are much less $$$ than the watches I was interested in. She has also definitely benefited from my carry of these items, so I think that mutes some of the potential complaining.
 

mostel california

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I don't know if I'm addicted, but my significant other has seen a slew of USPS/UPS boxes coming in. She's been pretty cool about it. I reckon she won't freak out if one or two more land anytime soon. After that, she might start asking questions...
 

Kevinkw1

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I don't know if I'm addicted, but my significant other has seen a slew of USPS/UPS boxes coming in. She's been pretty cool about it. I reckon she won't freak out if one or two more land anytime soon. After that, she might start asking questions...

Do what I do, send em to the parents so she doesn't notice! Shhhh
 

rcyo88

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My gf is tolerant but she doesn't understand why I need more than one. I bought my gf an E05 (fenix) for her bday to help her understand. The lil' light should be coming next week. Maybe I can convince her to buy me H502 (zebralight) for my bday next month. Hehehehe. Btw, I bought her more than a light for her bday; it was just a quick add-on. :whistle:
 

TEEJ

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Supportive might be too strong a word.......

I use them for work, so she really doesn't SEE the lights much....but if I do a pocket dump and there's say 3 lights, she does look a bit askance at me. Luckily, she knows what I do for a living, etc, and that I am in dark places, etc...and sort of understands why I might need lights...but is not quite there yet as far as why ONE light is not be able to do everything I need.

I DID manage to get her to carry a p60 sized surefire in her glove box of the wrangler (LED drop-in), a tritium fob and a fauxton for her key chain. The tritium is nice because it lights the room up after you're night adjusted....and you don't have to turn it on/off or worry about cells, etc.

Its in a nice fob from Merkava in CPFM, looks like a teeny antique bronze lantern. (T6 Aluminum)

:D
 
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ABTOMAT

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Former girlfriend liked the _idea_ of my flashlight collection, and loved having a good flashlight (I gave her a Fenix as a present once,) but the actual intricacies of the flashlight market didn't interest her. But she'd fully understand if we went somewhere and I had three of the on me at a given time.
 

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Does it count if my girlfriend bought me a flashlight but then tells me I shouldn't buy/don't need anymore? Women are such confusing creatures...but definitely great to have around to do things for. And vice versa lol. But really...what does it mean if she did ^that?
 

drdmsmith

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Does it count if my girlfriend bought me a flashlight but then tells me I shouldn't buy/don't need anymore? Women are such confusing creatures...but definitely great to have around to do things for. And vice versa lol. But really...what does it mean if she did ^that?

I suggest that it means she wants to continue buying them for you...
Create a list so that it is easy for her.... She is so thoughtful.
 

genius5th

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lately very supportive, once she figured out what the hype was about and she knows that it's just a hobby and if I enjoy it then she is happy for me.
 

zyzz

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haha no girl firend here but my brother envys my collection
 

CPFBiology

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One time, I spent close to 350 and it really rustled her jimmies. Oh dear, why could I spend so much. It is because I already had a bunch of other flashlights. Oh well, she mad, then she mad. She just doesn't understand the interest and how useful they can be under the right situations.
 

gglockner

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I would have to say no. Am I supportive of all the shoes she has? I think not.
 
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