Bradlee
Enlightened
True enough, xochi.
Truer words were never spoken. My thoughts exactly. I personally try to avoid as much exposure to pop culture as possible. In the end it just warps your values. I don't care if I'm up on the latest trends or not. It's really sad that all schools and society are doing is preparing children to be the next generation of consumers.xochi said:Personally, I believe that pop culture and the amount of time that people spend wallowing in unrealistic, marketing inspired bullshi* is the prime culprit. I also wouldn't limit this to just young people but everyone who spends more than 20 minutes a week subjecting themselves to the messages whose prime goal is manipulation of our hearts and minds. When our society is engineered by individuals with profit as their prime motivation we shouldn't be surprised when we turn out individuals who are massively self involved and undisciplined. Fortunately there are still alot of people who recognize the situation and make an effort to avoid compromising core values for the sake of 'fitting in' .
mccavazos said:What I don't understand is why older people hate undisiplined kids so much whne there are tons and tons of undisiplined adults out there as well.
My mom went to a Catholic school taught by nuns. Being rapped on the knuckles with a ruler was quite common from what I understand. Also, we she came home and complained to her mother that the teacher hit her or yelled at her, her mother replied "Good, you probably did something to deserve it". You're right, nowadays the parents would probably sue the school. I don't see corporal punishment as a panacea, but used sparingly it works where all else fails.Malpaso said:I had Catholic nuns as teachers, starting with kindergarten. I would have preferred a DI instead. Corporal punishement was a given, and somehow my parents knew what I'd done before I even got off the bus going home. Then they doubled the punishment, unlike now when the parents would sue the school system.
Bradlee said:I'm right in that age category you're describing, and I feel the same way. , although I find it's usually only a select few who have no respect. Sadly, without *real* punishment (read spanking, physical repremendation) I don't think the next generation will grow up to be any better.
I think the real problem is in this new philosophy that a child should be punished by taking away certain privillages. Although I realize that this can sometimes work, I remember quite clearly my fellow students (when I was in elementry school) being sent to their rooms when they were bad. The problem - their rooms had TV's, Computers, Game systems, etc. Kids just don't seem to be facing real consequences for doing bad things these days, and as a result they grow up without learning from their mistakes; they still show disrespect, etc, that should have been *beaten out* when they were young. :shrug:
-Brad
Sinjz said:To answer mccavazos's question very simply.
I can say and do things to adults I can not to someone else' child. Look at a kid cross-eyed and thier parents will sue you for abusing thier child and want millions.
Jumpmaster said:I The vast majority of the 17-21 year-olds I was in training with were just the most undisciplined, spoiled brats you've ever seen -- but that was corrected during the first week or so of basic.
JM-99
mccavazos said:Hahaha thats great and true. :laughing:
Too bad though, in most cases.
Anyway, just a few more comments. We went to the rainforest cafe for a friend of mines brithday. Me and two other friends (his brothers) arrived there 10 minutes before him and his parents. His parents had instructed us to get our reserved table so that we would meet the time of the reservation. THey told us that we could not be seated because there was only three of us, and the reservation was for eight. This is total BS, they only said that because we looked like a bunch of kids (I suffer from baby face syndrome (19 and still no facial har)) . I realize that I am only 19 and do not have the experience and wisdon of the older folk, but I see myself as an adult, and I try my best to get peoples respect. Anyway, when his parents arrived the three of them went up without us, to the same guy and were seated. It happens all of the time to us, trying to take stuff back to Best Buy, they told me that they could not accept it without a reciept even thoigh it was still in the original packaging and in the shrink wrap with their price sticker on it. They even tried to tell me that it wasn't the shrink wrap that they used, and I had bought it there myself. My dad went up their to the same register and had store credit in 5 minutes, when I had spent 3 hours arguing with the guy earlier that day. Off rant for now: I think that the majority of these bratty disrespectful kids, are just that. But there are probably many of them that are just treated like crap by people that assume that they are all that way. Now this is in no way an exuse for that kind of behavior, but it is a probable cause. I am honostly tired of being treated like I am a punk-a**hole kid, when I have done nothing to deserve that. I honostly try to help people when I can. Sorry for changing topic, I just felt the need for a vent.
Sinjz said:Well for the resturant, its common not to seat you unless your whole party is there (or at least the large majority of it), especially if it's a busy resturant. Are you sure the parents didn't give the same last name and the hostess didn't recognize that name and knew several people of that party were already here? Even if they were being dumb, I would think it has more with weather or not you look like you can put down a nice tip than if you were a kid or not. I suspect if Hillary Duff walked in, instant table. If a 50 y/o bum walked it, he'll get escorted out. Obvious extremes examples, but I think you may be taking slight where there may not be any. Not for the reasons you think anyway. How were you dressed? As for the Best Buy example, you're not suppose to be able to return stuff without a receipt. I bet your father just overwhelmed the guy with logic like how the BB sticker was still on it. I doubt he got all pissy or bratty with the guy. How do they know you didn't just grab it off the shelf and took it up to the customer service desk for a return? Again how were you dressed? Of course customer service at these type of stores usually suck regardless....
I think it all comes down to what bradlee said; There are no consequences for most of these kids. They get away with being stupid, so they stay stupid.
Anybody remember that story, I think a year ago, where some kid (8 y/o?) was being disruptive in school , even hitting and spitting on a teacher. She was so unruly and uncontrollable , the cops were called. The cops come in and put the kid in handcuff to keep her from hitting people while they figure out what's going on. The parents got the cops got fired. If she were an adult going crazy in school, the cops could of thrown her down and hog tied her and the teacher could of sued her for assault....